06.15.08

Dada’s Day with many special surprises.

Posted in April, Charlie, Luke at 7:57 pm by selfwalker

I am enjoying my 3rd  Father’s Day – that is if I am allowed to count the one when Charlie was still in the womb.  Oh well, the more the merrier.  We just returned from going out to eat with her side of the family, which was about 40 people.  About 10 minutes from home, I had a quick flashback to the good ol’ country of Indiana as fumes of fresh farm wafted into my nostrils.  To my surprise the smell was something different.  April looked back at Charlie in his car seat to see his hands covered in poo.  Clean up time was spectacular and my wife summed it well, “Happy Father’s Day!”

April gifted me a very sweet present.  It was a frame with a poem and Charlie’s footprints.  Here is the poem.

Someday I’ll walk through the woods or even run a race,
Someday I’ll fix a buckle or even tie a lace,
Someday I’ll walk across the street or even into space,
Someday I might even try to walk my daddy’s pace.
 
Someday I’ll climb way up high in a big huge tree,
Someday I may even hike the big ole P.C.T.
Someday I’ll walk to kindergarten and learn my ABC’s,
Someday I’ll walk around at a university.
 
Someday I’ll ride a tricycle and then I’ll ride a bike,
Someday I’ll call you, Daddy, for some fatherly advice.
Someday I’ll walk beside you , and I will say this twice,
“Thank you Dad, Than you Dad, you are the sunshine of my life!”
And so the fatherhood journey continues…

06.13.08

Summer Sizzle

Posted in Charlie, Luke at 2:17 pm by selfwalker

Summer is almost here but we have been sizzling from the heat already.  I have no idea what I mean by that.  We have had some super duper great days and some poopy days.  Those poopy days, I mean that literally.  I am talking about Charlie’s poo all over his crib in the morning type of poopy days.  What would life be with out poopy days?  They are always such great stories!  The warm weather has brought back camping weekends, which are some of my favorite times.  Hanging out in nature and being active with family is a blissful experience.  For example, watching Charlie catching a butterfly with his bare hands and then almost putting into his mouth.  As we told him no, he let go and the butterfly flew away.  A rock was not as lucky; he swallowed a small pebble and no I did not look for it in his diaper.  Thus, this summer will have some new experiences now that Charlie is bit bigger and able to walk around.  We bought a small pool for the backyard and attached the baby bike seat that was given to us by our baby-sitter.  However, we might have to get a new one because, well, to make a long story short, it is very dangerous.  And you know me; Safety First!  Finally, Charlie had his last day with the baby-sitter yesterday.  April will now take over that role and then Charlie will begin attending a daycare in late August.  Today, though, I am the baby-sitter for Charlie.  My sister just corrected me; I cannot be a baby-sitter for my own child.  Well then what is it: son-sitter?  She says it is called parenting.  Oh yeah that is right.  I am a Dad and Father’s Day is this weekend.  Yahoo, time to start celebrating of another great year being a Dad and getin’ my parenting groove on!

05.19.08

Back to Back

Posted in April, Charlie, Luke at 8:28 pm by selfwalker

We have had two great weekends back to back.  The first was a festival, Lake Eden Arts Festival, and the other was a hiking celebration, Trail Days.

LEAF-This was probably the most of I have had to “work” at this festival-that is if you call volunteering at the drink booth working.  The past years I have had a laid back weekend enjoying the soaking of sunshine, listening to world music, and simply letting the time roll on by.  However, this time Charlie was up walking around, which meant that I had to keep up with him every second of the day.  This was Charlie’s 3rd festival and the previous two he pretty much laid around on a blanket or slept in his stroller.  This meant we could go on with all of our normal festival activities.  No more though.  I am making this much more dramatic then it actually was.  I had just as good of time as the other times; the only difference is that now I am truly participating in a family festival.  Soon we will all be at the drum circle dancing around with the hippies.  Till then I will savor up the kids tent, kids market, and face painting.  Kids first, mama and dada second.

Trail Days.  I wrote about Trail Days last year (Click here to read it) and it was pretty much the same.  Again, Charlie did not come with us; April and I had our only little weekend.  This year I was able to see a movie premiere, documentary on the Continental Divide Trail by the guy who made Appalachian Impressions.  It was very inspiring.  Plus, they gave away free popcorn in a box.  I mean when was the last time you had popcorn in a box.  We also saw slides of Mount Washington in the winter (click here to see their web cam) and show clips about National Parks in the USA.  Overall, just like LEAF, being around people of who share common interests is like no other.  Hike on…

To cap on our wonderful back to back weekends, we biked a portion of the the Virginia Creeper Trail.  I shot some video of our trip.  Click here to watch or just watch it on my blog.  Time to get ready for another weekend.  The summer has just begun!

05.05.08

FINALly FINALs

Posted in April, Charlie, Luke at 1:36 pm by selfwalker

“FINALly FINALs” is what I wrote on my message board outside of my office.  Finals for the Spring semester were last week and that was just one thing that has been wrapping up around here.  Here is a quick run through.

  1. Spring semester is now over and I now have two weeks before the Summer semester starts.  I work the same amount of hours, yet there are packed in differently.  I will teach from 8 to 12 Monday through Thursday for 10 weeks.  So even though I don’t officially have the summer off, it is sort of like working half days.
  2. April ran another race this weekend; this time a 25K.  She finished second in her age group with a time of 2 hours and six minutes.  Click here to see the results.
  3. I made the final payment on my car, Elementone.  This was mostly possibly because of my tax refund check;  thanks Charlie for the extra dependent bonus.  Now, I still have major college loans and of course a house mortgage to pay off.  However, hopefully these will be all on gone by time I am 40.  Taking three years off to hike the AT, be a waiter, and attend grad school full-time were broke times and further into debt times but I am so glad that I did it.  I think there is a saying that goes “Do it now and ask for forgiveness later.”  Well I would change it to, “Do it now and pay the major interest later.”  Note that this motto should not be applied to credit card spending ;-)
  4. NC president primary yada yadaness is coming to a close.  We were fortunate to have Bill Clinton speak just two blocks away from our house.  He spoke from the porch of a local resident and spoke about why we should vote for Hillary.  This was my first political rally and I thought it was a really neat experience.  
  5. Charlie is getting closer and closer to saying good-bye to crawling.  He still falls down often and cannot stand up on his own.  We were at our local green way yesterday and bet Charlie walked close to a total of 75 yards.  I wonder what the equivalence of his walk would be for me? Miles?

As with many other ending, there follows a new beginning.  And so another Chapter in the Life of Selfwalker continues.

04.24.08

A new era

Posted in Charlie at 10:30 am by selfwalker

Don’t ask me how I know this or why this is true.   I know I could be wrong but my parenting instinct seems to be alerting me of this.  The alert is not like tornado warning informing me that a disaster is on the horizon.  The alert is more like an alarm clock signaling that a new day has come and it is time to face new opportunities and challenges.  So, I am now going to state it and say nothing else.

The toddler years have officially begun.

04.23.08

He’s a walker, not a talker, a midnight stalker

Posted in Charlie, Luke at 9:34 am by selfwalker

Charlie is walking!  Monday, at the babysitters, he started by taking a few steps on his own.  Now he his up to taking about 15 steps before falling down.  Watching him walk is fantastic entertainment.  It is like seeing a drunk walk down the street and trying to calculate when the drunk will wobble out of control and come crashing down to his feet.  Perhaps, I could create a website that would allow people to bet how far Charlie will walk each time.  Will it be 3, 4, 9, 16 steps?  What about the next one 1, 2, 5 8 steps?  After seeing how expensive a new house would be, I might do anything for a quick buck.  

Also, his facial expressions are priceless.  When he really gets on a roll he makes a face that quickly goes from excitement to panic as if he was saying,

Yippee this is awesome! But oh crap where should I walk to, where should I walk to, where should I walk to?

Since Charlie can now walk on his own, he does not want to be carried anymore.  I am sure that this is just another step in his independence. No pun intended.  We already bought him a kid leash; we got the monkey one, it is really cute.  He wears the leash like a backpack, allowing him to taste a smidgen of freedom and preventing him from breaking free of my grip and running off.  Finally, because of technology my family has been able to see Charlie walk on the web cam.  600 miles away and still able to be visually apart of the events in our life.  Awww how sweet.

Now that Charlie is walking and I am taking a break from walking.  I do feel great, but I thought I would take a break on the exercise, as my body fully heals.  My reasoning is probably way off, yet it is a great excuse in not having to walk in the morning.  Instead, I sit in a chair, eat oatmeal, and write this wonderful post.  :lol:

 

04.04.08

Finding plumbing

Posted in April, Charlie, Luke at 1:17 am by selfwalker

This week plumbing is a theme at the Walsh house.  
  • Last Sunday,  I was watching the NCAA tournament, glued to the TV screen, and April was cleaning the fridge.  She dumped some very old pinto beans down the garbage disposal, along with a few other things.  Within seconds, the sink was filled up with smelly-watery-food that was not going down the drain.  I tried many things before accepting that fact that I had to get under the sink and open up the pipes.  I had no clue what I was doing.  I put on my headlamp, slithered my way in the cupboards, and began twisting and turning.  Then I found the culprit, which was chunks shredded celery.  In the end, I washed out the pipes, put every thing back together, and the sink was draining once again.  Overall, I am waiting for that “Walsh disaster” when some thing simple turns drastically wrong and expletives fill the air.
  • Enough about my plumbing time to talk about Charlie’s.  Bath time has been extra exciting this week.  Charlie has found Mr. Pee Pee.  I am not going to write any details, other than April and I have been laughing much more this week.

This weekend we travel to Charleston, SC.  April is running in one of the best 10 K in the world, well that is what some say, the Cooper River Bridge Run.  Over 30,000 will be running in this race.   It should be quite the experience.Have a great first weekend of April! 

03.30.08

Last days of March

Posted in April, Charlie, Luke at 4:05 pm by selfwalker

The last time I posted was one day before the glorious Pi Day and many other events have also happened since then.
  1.  April and I have both had our spring break.  Unfortunately, our two breaks did not occur during the same week.  April did some wonderful spring cleaning around the house and also took care of Charlie the entire time.  I also cleaned, finding a $100 Amazon gift certificate!
  2. April and I went on a weekend trip.  We were celebrating our 2nd year wedding anniversary.  On day one we camped and rode bikes along the New River in Virginia.  We had great weather: cool-sunny days for biking and clear chilly nights for camping.  Day two we rented a cabin, (cabin #4), near the Blue Ridge Parkway.  It was great find.  The cabin felt remote, nestled in the woods, and they even brought us breakfast in the morning.
  3. Charlie has been walking faster and faster with his walker.  I posted a video on my YouTube page.  (Click here to watch it)  Perhaps the month of April will be Charlie’s first steps.
  4. I have posted some new pictures at my website.  Click here to see them.
  5. We have been tossing around the idea of moving.  We really love where we live, but we would like to have a yard for Charlie and also having a shorter commute to our jobs would be a bonus.  We will keep our eyes open.

There you have it; our two week check up.  Enjoy your final days of March.  April Fool’s is just around the corner.  Lastyear I wrote that April was having another kid.  A certain someone took the bait.  Hmm… what can I do this year?

03.13.08

He walks, I walk, we walk

Posted in April, Charlie, Luke at 1:40 am by selfwalker

Charlie is now WALKING with a walker.  He strolls around the house running into walls or any thing in his way.  Although he cannot turn the walker around now, he may in a week.  Just during the past seven days I have noticed a big difference in his walking ability.  He is getting faster and at times even letting go of the walker.  The time when I’ll be throwing him a football and then him running for a touchdown is just around the corner.

I have been keeping up with my morning walks.  Recently I earned this award.  (click here to see it)  My monthly goal for total miles has increased from 20 miles to 40 miles.  Honestly, my only motivation to continue walking are podcasts and my monthly goal.  Health and exercise have nothing to do with it, but they are nice outcomes.  Being able to listen to science news, a hip-hop mix, interviews, academic discussions, talk shows, etc. is a great way to start the day.  I cannot really say that I am any smarter from listening to hours and hours of podcasts, but I do believe that from hearing so many different perspectives my critical thinking skills have greatly improved.  I think there for I am.

April and I have been on our marriage walk for two years.  Our anniversary was March 11. Year two is cotton.  So we tailored our gifts towards that theme.  Also, we went out to eat to our favorite restaurant downtown, The Wine and Bistro.  Next weekend we will be traveling around Virginia for our anniversary trip.  Overall, my walk with April is amazing.  She never misses an opportunity to say thank you, to help out, to listen, to laugh, to communicate, and to Love.  As the path in wood diverges, I am so thankful that we chose to walk together and not take separate paths.

Time to go to bed; I have to get up at 6 and walk in the morning! 

 

03.10.08

Move the goal post

Posted in Charlie, Luke at 2:20 am by selfwalker

A SUPER CRAZY HAT UPDATE:  Remember the story about me finding Charlie’s hat on the sidewalk curve?  The hat that had been missing for about three weeks?  Well there has been a slight twist in events because today we found the hat again!  I saw the hat at my mother-in-law’s house and I quickly asked  April, “Hey did you bring this hat here?”  ”No.” she said.  Her face was as confused as mine.  Both us were thinking the exact same thing, “Well then whose hat do we have at our house?  Is it some one else’s?”  This experience was very weird.  What is the chance of me finding a hat that looks exactly like Charlie’s, as I am walking back to pick up his other that Charlie just through out of his wagon, while April and I were strolling around down town?  Before today I would have said no chance, but I now see that there is one.  As a result, finding the actual hat throws a wrench in the possible reasons for finding the “hat” the first time.  Could I still say that I created it or that a spirit guided me to it or that it was meant to be?  Sure but then I would have to change the beliefs a bit so that they could now fit the new story.  This is sort of like the phrase, “moving the goal post”, which basically means changing your ideas so that your ideas are not wrong.  For instance, suppose someone finds a study that conflicts with their beliefs.  Their reaction could be, “Well that is just one study; that doesn’t really show much.”  Even if more evidence conflicts with their beliefs, they can just keep moving the goal post farther and farther back, to the point that the beliefs can never be seen as possibly false.  Better yet, is when one study, or form of evidence, is found that supports their beliefs and they say, “Told you so!”  Thus, only one is needed to confirm while an uncountable amount is needed to expose the lack of reason.So if anyone one else is missing a blue hat with orange stripes and ear flaps let me know because Charlie cannot wear two at a time.  Yes, two heads are better than one, but you still only need one hat.

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